20th January may seem a strange day to make a New Year’s resolution, but it’s not so much a resolution as a gradually growing realisation of what I want out of the year. Now that I’ve figured it out, I thought I might as well share it here.
When kids are growing up, adults decide what they’re going to do. And not only do we make better choices for kids than they would make for themselves, we make better choices for them than we do for ourselves. Here’s what kids do:
- Learn things (in school)
- Play sports (also in school, if not elsewhere)
- Sing and play instruments (e.g. school concerts)
- Draw and paint
- Write stories
(They also play video games and watch TV, but let’s ignore those for now because those are things that adults also do plenty of.)

All those things are fun. Adults choose them for kids because they know that they’ll enjoy themselves, that they’ll develop their creativity, that they’ll be healthy. Then having set our kids off on that trajectory, we slump in front of our computers for eight or twelve hours every day.
In 2012, I’m going to do those things, too. Why should kids have all the fun?
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